Hi Sara! Last June I bought a rat from Petco -he was in a cage all by
himself and I just knew he was destined to be eaten, so home with me he
went. I've become quite relaxed in how I socialize my rats -basically, I
let them choose when they will trust me. I would sit by the cage (it was at
chair level), my knee would be close to the door, and have treats in my
hand. I started out feeding them treats in their cage, cooing at them and
talking sweetly and softly, in a short amount of time they were venturing
out on my knee for treats -before long they were crawling all over me and
being tickled and tickling me back, etc. Debbie Ducommum's website
(http://www.ratfanclub.org/trust.html) has been SO HELPFUL to me -she talks
about trust training, and in my limited experience, it's central to your
relationship with your rat. There are some rats that just won't trust
you -it's a fact of rat life -I've had two like that. But I've also had &
have several rats that bonded with me very strongly. Two have passed away,
but I remember that in their last days, they drew comfort from being with
me, one even bruxing as best he could as weak as he was, just a few short
hours before he died. Rats are alot like people -some are open and generous
and caring, while some are closed off from us and guarded. But even those
unloveable ones can love too. Like the others have said, your little guy
may just be frightened, having a little companion for him would help. At
the same time, trust training will show him that your hand means good things
and safety. I've tried the forced socialization of making our little ones
sit on our shoulders for 20 minutes a day -and those nervous guys just seem
to be more nervous -so, I give them the option. I am able to block off one
room in our home-then I open the cage door and allow them access to the
floor. One of my rats is very nervous and always runs from you-so I give
him the option. I lay on the floor and talk and chatter with them all, and
the nervous boy always ends up sitting on my back and eating treats and
cleaning himself -and occassionally have a wrestling match (which does not
feel very good if your shirt is thin.) He likes to be around me, but
doesn't like to be held. He allows it for brief moments, but that's it.
Give your boy time, feed him treats, and give him the option -it might work
in your situation.
Hope I've helped!
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> Hi...
> I just got a rat from a Petco (I know, please don't lecture me on petco's)
> and I think his cage is too small (it's an aquarium and I just found out
> that it's a bad idea to keep a rat in aqarium so I'm going to rectify it
> soon), and that he might be bored. When I reach in to pick him up, he
> either hides in his little house or runs away from me. I read that he
> should be handled as much as possible to get him socialized but he's
> started to bite me. The same site suggested wearing gloves for a rat that
> bites, so I tried that but I'm worried that it will hide my scent.
> I think that maybe my rat has problems because he came from a pet store
> where he could not be properally socialized. I wonder if there's a good
> way to socialize him now, or if I will just have a rat with behavior
> problems?