in diminishing another, we diminish ourselves

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in diminishing another, we diminish ourselves

Post by bowrbir » Sat, 30 Dec 2000 04:55:33



This has been a disappointing morning of reading, although not surprising.
There has been a distinct difference in the style of replies.
Postings that have been reasoned, and not in the least antagonistic, have
attracted the kind of vitriolic response, that tends to reflect more about
the poster than the person being posted to.
Does any one here understand the distinction between attacking what a person
may say, and attacking that person on a personal level?
Once personal attacks are resorted to, the poster loses all credibility.
It would be helpful if people would own their statements, that is, speak in
the singular, rather than presenting opinion as fact.
Given the history of humanity, a little unlikely, granted.
This used to be newsgroup that was a pleasure to visit.  I hope it may be
again.
And no I don't agree that this is the fault of a single person, however
convenient a reply that is.  There are more than one perpetuating self
importance, and it isn't a pretty sight.
If you feel the need to attack; what is it exactly that you are defending?
Your attacks, and the nature of these attacks say more about you. Each of
you.
In the act of diminishing another, we diminish ourselves.

Kaffie

 
 
 

in diminishing another, we diminish ourselves

Post by John Marshal » Sat, 30 Dec 2000 07:41:20


Can we just get on with chatting about cavies, instead of people going on
about others arguing?

Thanks for this Bowrbird, but basically you are just adding to the flame, by
raking up things and preaching to us all.

John.

Quote:
> This has been a disappointing morning of reading, although not surprising.
> There has been a distinct difference in the style of replies.
> Postings that have been reasoned, and not in the least antagonistic, have
> attracted the kind of vitriolic response, that tends to reflect more about
> the poster than the person being posted to.
> Does any one here understand the distinction between attacking what a
person
> may say, and attacking that person on a personal level?
> Once personal attacks are resorted to, the poster loses all credibility.
> It would be helpful if people would own their statements, that is, speak
in
> the singular, rather than presenting opinion as fact.
> Given the history of humanity, a little unlikely, granted.
> This used to be newsgroup that was a pleasure to visit.  I hope it may be
> again.
> And no I don't agree that this is the fault of a single person, however
> convenient a reply that is.  There are more than one perpetuating self
> importance, and it isn't a pretty sight.
> If you feel the need to attack; what is it exactly that you are defending?
> Your attacks, and the nature of these attacks say more about you. Each of
> you.
> In the act of diminishing another, we diminish ourselves.

> Kaffie

 
 
 

in diminishing another, we diminish ourselves

Post by Judith Moo » Sat, 30 Dec 2000 10:49:31


I agree bowrbird.  I shall do my part and kill file those who are so
busy attacking me.  Cavies are a much sweeter thing to discuss anyway.
Judith M.



Quote:
> This has been a disappointing morning of reading, although not
surprising.
> There has been a distinct difference in the style of replies.
> Postings that have been reasoned, and not in the least antagonistic,
have
> attracted the kind of vitriolic response, that tends to reflect more
about
> the poster than the person being posted to.
> Does any one here understand the distinction between attacking what a
person
> may say, and attacking that person on a personal level?
> Once personal attacks are resorted to, the poster loses all
credibility.
> It would be helpful if people would own their statements, that is,
speak in
> the singular, rather than presenting opinion as fact.
> Given the history of humanity, a little unlikely, granted.
> This used to be newsgroup that was a pleasure to visit.  I hope it
may be
> again.
> And no I don't agree that this is the fault of a single person,
however
> convenient a reply that is.  There are more than one perpetuating self
> importance, and it isn't a pretty sight.
> If you feel the need to attack; what is it exactly that you are
defending?
> Your attacks, and the nature of these attacks say more about you.
Each of
> you.
> In the act of diminishing another, we diminish ourselves.

> Kaffie

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