Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

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Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by dave black » Tue, 13 Aug 2002 05:17:41



Quote:

> I don't want to make you feel guilty, but have you thought that maybe your
> leaving has prompted some "heart-break"?  I say this because I have seen a
> couple family member's older pets pass away very quickly after their
> owner's, seemingly out of loneliness.  Since she "perks up" when she visits
> you, it makes me think that might be an explanation/contributing factor.
> Just a thought!
> Amy


> > Hi,
> > I am writing in the hope that someone will be able to give me some
> > advise / share some experiences with me.

> > My cat, Misty, is 17 / 18 years old... I moved out of the family home
> > a couple of months ago, Misty still lives there with my mum. As of a
> > couple of weeks ago Misty got quite strange acting... Being a bit
> > hazy. We took her to the vets and they said she was dehydrated and
> > took her in and put her on a drip for a couple of nights, with
> > antibiotics... She perked up a bit, and ate and drank a bit, so they
> > let us take her home...

> > Gradually she ate less and less and drank less, and we took her back
> > to the vets... it has gone on like this a week or so, with going to
> > the vets and getting different antibiotics and stuff.

> > BUT she is still dehydrated, drinking a little bit, not eating at all,
> > having difficulty passing stools, and today she was sick after
> > drinking some water...

> > I originally though that part of it was that she was really
> > constipated because she is so dehydrated - but the vet says he doesn't
> > think so - could be lymphoma or kidney problems maybe... He said there
> > was glucose in her urine (which shouldn't be there) but that it wasn't
> > diabetes (which is what this CAN indicate).

> > The vet has put her on steroids, and is not sure what the problem is
> > without looking inside - which she is defiantly too old for...

> > I take her over to my house with me sometimes, to see my dog as well -
> > who she is friends with and she perks up a bit sometimes... She is
> > still purring and stuff, when you make a fuss of her and able to move
> > around etc... so she doesn't seem to be in pain... it's so hard to
> > know what to do when she seems weak but generally quite comfortable
> > and takes a walk around the garden every so often.. She does want to
> > be left alone to sleep quite a bit though and is getting very skinny
> > now...

> > Any similar experience on what it could be? OR what we can do to help
> > her?

> > I hate the thought of putting her down, especially is she isn't that
> > miserable, but I can't just let her starve herself to death. Is it
> > kinder to let her go now, or should we wait until she seems more
> > miserable - or is that just cruel??

> > I'm sorry for the length of this message. Misty has been around for
> > nearly as long as me - and I just want to do what's right by her....

> > Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

> > Thank you

> > Bec

Could you perhaps suggest your vet tests her liver? I've very little
experience of sick cats, but once I had a cat who was completely off
his food for days and just sat there looking very ill. I took him to
then vet three or four times until the vet finally decided to do liver
tests. He gave my cat *** for his liver, and the result was amazing
- he was literally running around the very next day.

The vet thought it was poisoning (the liver's the body's
detoxification plant) and this was probably true, as my cat used to
eat grass in next door's garden, and my neighbour said he'd been using
weedkiller.

Hope this helps.

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Mic » Thu, 15 Aug 2002 12:09:32


 > Hi,
 > I am writing in the hope that someone will be able to give me some
 > advise / share some experiences with me.
 >
 > My cat, Misty, is 17 / 18 years old... I moved out of the family home
 > a couple of months ago, Misty still lives there with my mum. As of a
 > couple of weeks ago Misty got quite strange acting... Being a bit
 > hazy. We took her to the vets and they said she was dehydrated and
 > took her in and put her on a drip for a couple of nights, with
 > antibiotics... She perked up a bit, and ate and drank a bit, so they
 > let us take her home...
 >
 > Gradually she ate less and less and drank less, and we took her back
 > to the vets... it has gone on like this a week or so, with going to
 > the vets and getting different antibiotics and stuff.
 >
 > BUT she is still dehydrated, drinking a little bit, not eating at all,
 > having difficulty passing stools, and today she was sick after
 > drinking some water...
 >
 > I originally though that part of it was that she was really
 > constipated because she is so dehydrated - but the vet says he doesn't
 > think so - could be lymphoma or kidney problems maybe... He said there
 > was glucose in her urine (which shouldn't be there) but that it wasn't
 > diabetes (which is what this CAN indicate).
 >
 > The vet has put her on steroids, and is not sure what the problem is
 > without looking inside - which she is defiantly too old for...
 >
 > I take her over to my house with me sometimes, to see my dog as well -
 > who she is friends with and she perks up a bit sometimes... She is
 > still purring and stuff, when you make a fuss of her and able to move
 > around etc... so she doesn't seem to be in pain... it's so hard to
 > know what to do when she seems weak but generally quite comfortable
 > and takes a walk around the garden every so often.. She does want to
 > be left alone to sleep quite a bit though and is getting very skinny
 > now...
 >
 > Any similar experience on what it could be? OR what we can do to help
 > her?
 >
 > I hate the thought of putting her down, especially is she isn't that
 > miserable, but I can't just let her starve herself to death. Is it
 > kinder to let her go now, or should we wait until she seems more
 > miserable - or is that just cruel??
 >
 > I'm sorry for the length of this message. Misty has been around for
 > nearly as long as me - and I just want to do what's right by her....
 >
 > Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 >
 > Thank you
 >
 > Bec

Bec, you just described, to the letter, what I am currently experiencing
with my 20 yr old Siamese mix. The vet told me this evening that she
believes Boo has tumors in her abdominal cavity and it may have spread to
her lungs. They are going to do more tests tomorrow, but the doctor doesn't
think it looks very promising for my baby to live much longer.
I guess I'll be having to deal with the same issue soon. The vet says that
we can give Boo meds to make her more comfortable, but that may be the only
option other than putting her down.

Bummed

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Rick Harriso » Wed, 21 Aug 2002 15:24:54



Quote:

> I hate the thought of putting her down, especially is she isn't that
> miserable, but I can't just let her starve herself to death. Is it
> kinder to let her go now, or should we wait until she seems more
> miserable - or is that just cruel??

My cat had been verrry slowly losing weight over the past couple
of years... age unknown, she was a stray when I adopted her 16 years
ago. Sunday night her condition suddenly worsened; I followed her around
and saw that walking, eating, using the litterbox all seemed
difficult.  Monday morning she had a look on her face I had never
seen before, ears pulled back, eyes slanted, like terror but
different.  She made a very unhappy meow.

Regrettably, it seemed the time had come.  This is the first time
I've had a pet euthanized.  It was rough.

You will have to make the decision.  No easy answers.

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Kare » Wed, 21 Aug 2002 22:45:07


I'm so sorry :((

Karen


Quote:


> > I hate the thought of putting her down, especially is she isn't that
> > miserable, but I can't just let her starve herself to death. Is it
> > kinder to let her go now, or should we wait until she seems more
> > miserable - or is that just cruel??

> My cat had been verrry slowly losing weight over the past couple
> of years... age unknown, she was a stray when I adopted her 16 years
> ago. Sunday night her condition suddenly worsened; I followed her around
> and saw that walking, eating, using the litterbox all seemed
> difficult.  Monday morning she had a look on her face I had never
> seen before, ears pulled back, eyes slanted, like terror but
> different.  She made a very unhappy meow.

> Regrettably, it seemed the time had come.  This is the first time
> I've had a pet euthanized.  It was rough.

> You will have to make the decision.  No easy answers.

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Chery » Thu, 22 Aug 2002 08:26:19


On around Tue 20 Aug 2002 02:24:54a Rick Harrison


Quote:
> My cat had been verrry slowly losing weight over the past couple
> of years... age unknown, she was a stray when I adopted her 16
> years ago. Sunday night her condition suddenly worsened; I
> followed her around and saw that walking, eating, using the
> litterbox all seemed difficult.  Monday morning she had a look on
> her face I had never seen before, ears pulled back, eyes slanted,
> like terror but different.  She made a very unhappy meow.

> Regrettably, it seemed the time had come.  This is the first time
> I've had a pet euthanized.  It was rough.

> You will have to make the decision.  No easy answers.

I'm so sorry. It is one of the toughest and kindest decisions we have
to make for our little *** buddies. :(  I agree with you how you
*just know* when it's time. My sympathies.

--

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Rick Harriso » Thu, 22 Aug 2002 12:38:10



Quote:

> I'm so sorry. It is one of the toughest and kindest decisions we have
> to make for our little *** buddies. :(  I agree with you how you
> *just know* when it's time. My sympathies.

Thanks to you and the other poster who offered condolences. I have
become something of a reclusive hermit in recent years and didn't
have many people to discuss this incident with, apart from ***space.

It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Never anonymous Bu » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 00:12:22



Quote:
>>It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

>Sad but true.

But at the same time, consider living with a kitten, the SAME kitten,
for 10-12 years, maybe 18-20 years, before he became a cat

Quote:
>If you want a pet to outlive you I think you have buy a large bird.

Or a turtle.

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Post by Antiqu » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 00:35:17


:: On Tue, 20 Aug 2002 23:38:10 -0400, Rick Harrison
::
::: Thanks to you and the other poster who offered condolences. I have
::: become something of a reclusive hermit in recent years and didn't
::: have many people to discuss this incident with, apart from
::: ***space.
:::
::: It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.
::
:: Sad but true. If you want a pet to outlive you I think you
:: have buy a large bird. Of course, they don't demonstrate the
:: level of affection that you get from a cat. Most other pets
:: have short lifetimes compared to ours.
::
:: About all you can do is the same we do when we lose a person:
:: Remember the time you enjoyed with them, and, if your God allows
:: for it, hope that you'll meet up again in the great beyond.
::
:: JBob
It just dawned on me. I'm 66. My cats may well outlive me.

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Rick Harriso » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 03:05:58



Quote:


> belted out...

> >>It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

> >Sad but true.

> But at the same time, consider living with a kitten, the SAME kitten,
> for 10-12 years, maybe 18-20 years, before he became a cat

The solution may be to euthanize all humans at the age of, say, 30.
That way we would not have to endure the slow decline of ageing, and if
you adopted a cat when you were 10 or 12, it would probably live as
long
as you.
 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by David G Fishe » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 05:41:46



Quote:
> On Tue, 20 Aug 2002 23:38:10 -0400, Rick Harrison

> >Thanks to you and the other poster who offered condolences. I have
> >become something of a reclusive hermit in recent years and didn't
> >have many people to discuss this incident with, apart from ***space.

> >It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

> Sad but true. If you want a pet to outlive you I think you
> have buy a large bird. Of course, they don't demonstrate the
> level of affection that you get from a cat.

Oh, you would be very wrong there. I have both. :-)

Dave

 
 
 

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Post by Chery » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 09:23:03


Quote:



>> I'm so sorry. It is one of the toughest and kindest decisions we have
>> to make for our little *** buddies. :(  I agree with you how you
>> *just know* when it's time. My sympathies.

> Thanks to you and the other poster who offered condolences. I have
> become something of a reclusive hermit in recent years and didn't
> have many people to discuss this incident with, apart from ***space.

Great thing about the internet, you will always find people with common
interests who understand. :)

Quote:
> It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

<nods>
 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Ly » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 12:13:40


Quote:



> > I hate the thought of putting her down, especially is she isn't that
> > miserable, but I can't just let her starve herself to death. Is it
> > kinder to let her go now, or should we wait until she seems more
> > miserable - or is that just cruel??

> My cat had been verrry slowly losing weight over the past couple
> of years... age unknown, she was a stray when I adopted her 16 years
> ago. Sunday night her condition suddenly worsened; I followed her around
> and saw that walking, eating, using the litterbox all seemed
> difficult.  Monday morning she had a look on her face I had never
> seen before, ears pulled back, eyes slanted, like terror but
> different.  She made a very unhappy meow.

> Regrettably, it seemed the time had come.  This is the first time
> I've had a pet euthanized.  It was rough.

> You will have to make the decision.  No easy answers.

Aww...sorry you had to make that decision.  It is one that is kind and
loving, though.  I used to work as a vet assistant.  So many people
have said that they just know when it's time - like the animals
communicate it to their human companions.  It *is* a selfless choice -
one I hope my family can make for me if I need them to, one day.

Take care,
Lyn

 
 
 

Advice on my poor old cat (Long - sorry)

Post by Ly » Fri, 23 Aug 2002 12:17:44



Quote:

> >>It's a shame cats can't live as long as humans.

> >Sad but true.

> But at the same time, consider living with a kitten, the SAME kitten,
> for 10-12 years, maybe 18-20 years, before he became a cat

> >If you want a pet to outlive you I think you have buy a large bird.

> Or a turtle.

That's why so many birds and reptiles end up at shelters.  People
don't think about the fact that they are aquiring a pet that will live
35+ years.  Personally, I don't think the longer-lived species should
be sold as pets.  Some species of land tortoises can live 150 years or
more.  Not pet material.

-L.